I change the background music today. It's the <memories> of Dani Filth, sound just like <inner universe>.En, I like this.

 

还好英语这东西不像武术，一天不练手生，三天不练丢一半。不管怎么说，当初真的背了，就不至于全忘光。当然，最近公司那位landy小姐的存在确实有一些影响。

 

原来的那首《loving you》其实很好听。不过，这地浏览量是极少的，最近好像对部分摇滚音乐很欣赏，就我的地盘我随便折腾了。

 

人啊，有时候就是穷折腾，折腾别人折腾自己。也没办法，生活在社会底层的小人物一生就是这么折腾过的。你想超然，不是不可能，一个是要你用百分百的劲头打拼，一个是小概率事件发生。

 

本来今天是打算出去跟一帮80后出去玩，但藉着下雨的借口，以不花钱的姿态在家宅。发现自己的男儿血性好像被阉割了......算了，不说这个了，真TMD沉重。

 

那个，既然写东西了，就多写一些。

 

这两天在第三遍看《客体关系心理治疗》，这书真的很不错，从实际案例出发，阐述了“依赖”、“权利”、“情欲”、“迎合”这四种投射性认同的状态，以及一个客体关系心理治疗师要关注的要点。结合自己的观察，能发现生活中好多的人的特质。当然了，既然没人感觉自己有困扰，我就当所有人都心理健康了。

 

最后，报一下这几天听的歌：陈奕迅《H3M》，eason这个专辑整张都挺好听；阿sa《二缺一》；张敬轩《披星戴月》；容祖儿《搜神记》；谢安琪《祝英台》；还有《memories》。呃，冇错，除了一首英语，其他都是粤语歌。。。

为什么困的要死睡不着涅？？

最近最常逛的地方是开心网和豆瓣。

 

心理状态是不喜不悲。

 

连续2个礼拜相亲，然后都没相中，我要求真TM高！

 

这狗日的......

 

就这样，某日在某地见到与某人相似的人，竟然连声音都象。原来深刻的记忆都是是不开心的。

1. So, tell me a little about yourself.

You don’t need to explain everything from birth to present day. Relevant facts about education, your career and your current life situation are fine.

2. Why are you looking (or why did you leave you last job)?

This should be a straightforward question to answer, but it can trip you up. Presumably you are looking for a new job (or any job) because you want to advance your career and get a position that allows you to grow as a person and an employee. It’s not a good idea to mention money here, it can make you sound mercenary. And if you are in the unfortunate situation of having been downsized, stay positive and be a***rief as pos***le about it. If you were fired, you’ll need a good explanation. But once again, stay positive.

3. Tell me what you know about this company.

Do your homework before you go to any interview. Whether it’***eing the VP of marketing or the mailroom clerk, you should know about the company or business you’re going to work for. Has this company been in the news lately? Who are the people in the company you should know about? Do the background work, it will make you stand out as someone who comes prepared, and is genuinely interested in the company and the job.

4. Why do you want to work at X Company?

This should be directly related to the last question. Any research you’ve done on the company should have led you to the conclusion that you’d want to work there. After all, you’re at the interview, right? Put some thought into this answer before you have your interview, mention your career goals and highlight forward-thinking goals and career plans.

5. What relevant experience do you have?

Hopefully if you’re applying for this position you have bags of related experience, and if that’s the case you should mention it all. But if you’re switching careers or trying something a little different, your experience may initially not look like it’s matching up. That’s when you need a little honest creativity to match the experiences required with the ones you have. People skills are people skills after all, you just need to show how customer service skills can apply to internal management positions, and so on.

6. If your previous co-workers were here, what would they say about you?

Ok, this is not the time for full disclosure. If some people from your past are going to say you’re a boring A-hole, you don’t need to bring that up. Stay positive, always, and maybe have a few specific quotes in mind. “They’d say I was a hard worker” or even better “John Doe has always said I was the most reliable, creative problem-solver he’d ever met.”

7. Have you done anything to further your experience?

This could include anything from night classes to hobbies and sports. If it’s related, it’s worth mentioning. Obviously anything to do with further education is great, but maybe you’re spending time on a home improvement project to work on skills such as self-sufficiency, time management and motivation.

8. Where else have you applied?

This is a good way to hint that you’re in demand, without sounding like you’re whoring yourself all over town. So, be honest and mention a few other companie***ut don’t go into detail. The fact that you’re seriously looking and keeping your options open is what the interviewer is driving at.

9. How are you when you’re working under pressure?

Once again, there are a few ways to answer thi***ut they should all be positive. You may work well under pressure, you may thrive under pressure, and you may actually PREFER working under pressure. If you say you crumble like aged blue cheese, this is not going to help you get your foot in the door.

10. What motivates you to do a good job?

The answer to this one is not money, even if it is. You should be motivated by life’s noble pursuits. You want recognition for a job well done. You want to become better at your job. You want to help others or be a leader in your field.

11. What’s your greatest strength?

This is your chance to shine. You’re being asked to explain why you are a great employee, so don’t hold back and stay do stay positive. You could be someone who thrives under pressure, a great motivator, an amazing problem solver or someone with extraordinary attention to detail. If your greatest strength, however, is to drink anyone under the table or get a top score on Mario Kart, keep it to yourself. The interviewer is looking for work-related strengths.

12. What’s your biggest weakness?

If you’re completely honest, you may be kicking yourself in the butt. If you say you don’t have one, you’re obviously lying. This is a horrible question and one that politicians have become masters at answering. They say things like “I’m perhaps too committed to my work and don’t spend enough time with my family.” Oh, there’s a fireable offense. I’ve even heard “I think I’m too good at my job, it can often make people jealous.” Please, let’s keep our feet on the ground. If you’re asked this question, give a small, work-related flaw that you’re working hard to improve. Example: “I’ve been told I occasionally focus on details and miss the bigger picture, so I’ve been spending time laying out the complete project every day to see my overall progress.”

13. Let’s talk about salary. What are you looking for?

Run for cover! This is one tricky game to play in an interview. Even if you know the salary range for the job, if you answer first you’re already showing all your cards. You want as much as pos***le, the employer wants you for as little as you’re willing to take. Before you apply, take a look at salary.com for a good idea of what someone with your specific experience should be paid. You may want to say, “well, that’s something I’ve thought long and hard about and I think someone with my experience should get between X & Y.” Or, you could be sly and say, “right now, I’m more interested in talking more about what the position can offer my career.” That could at least buy you a little time to scope out the situation. But if you do have a specific figure in mind and you are confident that you can get it, I’d say go for it. I have on many occasions, and every time I got very close to that figure (both below and sometimes above).

14. Are you good at working in a team?

Unless you have the I.Q. of a houseplant, you’ll always answer YES to this one. It’s the only answer. How can anyone function inside an organization if they are a loner? You may want to mention what part you like to play in a team though; it’s a great chance to explain that you’re a natural leader.

15. Tell me a suggestion you have made that was implemented.

It’s important here to focus on the word “implemented.” There’s nothing wrong with having a thousand great ideas, but if the only place they live is on your notepad what’s the point? Better still, you need a good ending. If your previous company took your advice and ended up going bankrupt, that’s not such a great example either. Be prepared with a story about an idea of yours that was taken from idea to implementation, and considered successful.

16. Has anything ever irritated you about people you’ve worked with?

Of course, you have a list as long as your arm. But you can’t say that, it shows you a***eing negative and difficult to work with. The best way to answer this one is to think for a while and then say something like “I’ve always got on just fine with my co-workers actually.”
Use this question as a chance to show that you are a team player: “The only people I have trouble with are those who aren’t team players, who just don’t perform, who complain constantly, and who fail to respond to any efforts to motivate them.” The interviewer is expecting a response focused on personality and personal dislikes. Surprise her by delivering an answer that reflects company values

17. Is there anyone you just could not work with?

No. Well, unless you’re talking about murderers, racists, rapists, thieves or other dastardly characters, you can work with anyone. Otherwise you could be flagged as someone who’s picky and difficult if you say, “I can’t work with anyone who’s a Bronco’s fan. Sorry.”

18. Tell me about any issues you’ve had with a previou***oss.

Arrgh! If you fall for this one you shouldn’t be hired anyway. The interviewer is testing you to see if you’ll speak badly about your previous supervisor. Simply answer this question with exteme tact, diplomacy and if necessary, a big fat loss of memory. In short, you’ve never had any issues.
The answer to 18 is completely wrong. I am a director at a major media company’s interactive division. Our company is expanding and I am almost in a constant state of hiring. I ask a variation of this question in every single interview and if a candidate has never had one issue or disagreement with anyone, (I stated a variation: I ask if it has happened with anyone in the workplace) I peg them as a liar and reject them immediately.
I went well with my previou***oss. If there is an conflict, I will be open mind and talk about facts. once decision is made, I execute it well.

19. Would you rather work for money or job satisfaction?

It’s not a very fair question is it? We’d all love to get paid a Trump-like salary doing a job we love but that’s rare indeed. It’s fine to say money is important, but remember that NOTHING is more important to you than the job. Otherwise, you’re just someone looking for a bigger paycheck.

20. Would you rather be liked or feared?

I have been asked this a lot, in various incarnations. The first time I just drew a blank and said, “I don’t know.” That went over badly, but it was right at the start of my career when I had little to no experience. Since then I’ve realized that my genuine answer is “Neither, I’d rather be respected.” You don’t want to be feared because fear is no way to motivate a team. You may got the job done but at what cost? Similarly, if you’re everyone’***est friend you’ll find it difficult to make tough decisions or hit deadlines. But when you’re respected, you don’t have to be a complete bastard or a lame duck to get the job done.

21. Are you willing to put the interests of X Company ahead of your own?

Again, another nasty question. If you say yes, you’re a corporate whore who doesn’t care about family. If you say no, you’re disloyal to the company. I’m afraid that you’ll probably have to say yes to this one though, because you’re trying to be the perfect employee at this point, and perfect employees don’t cut out early for Jimmy’***a***all game.
it is situational. if you… ; if you …. Ethics and professionalism

22. So, explain why I should hire you.

As I’m sure you know, “because I’m great” or “I really need a job” are not good answers here. This is a time to give the employer a laundry list of your greatest talents that just so happen to match the job decision. It’s also good to avoid taking potshots at other potential candidates here. Focus on yourself and your talents, not other people’s flaws.

23. Finally, do you have any questions to ask me?
I’ll finish the way I started, with one of the most common questions asked in interviews. This directly relates to the research you’ve done on the company and also gives you a chance to show how eager and prepared you are. You’ll probably want to ask about benefits if they haven’t been covered already. A good generic one is “how soon could I start, if I were offered the job of course.” You may also ask what you’d be working on. Specifically, in the role you’re applying for and how that affects the rest of the company. Always have questions ready, greeting this one with a blank stare is a rotten way to finish your interview. Good luck and happy job hunting.
ponder for a moment, and then ask your interviewer “what aspect of your job do you find most challenging”.
I would ask the interviewer, “Why do you like to work here?”

24. Where do you want to be in 5 to years?

They dont want to hear in the same job you are interviewing for. Ultimately, the HR people are searching for someone who can handle the job now, and has the potential to grow into a high level management job in the future. Do you have those goals too?

25. Would you rather work for a big company or a small one?

Favorite answer: I’d treat any company like it was my own regardless. Total ownership of the situation can get you a long way.
General , the worst answer was “I don’t know.” I’ve since learned that “it depends,” with a couple of examples, is perfectly appropriate.

 

看完整篇文章，我的头很痛！英语确实是需要背的。

　　我们从小受到的教育是禁锢式的，我们不能怀疑权威的。当我们长大了却发现，这个世界变了，强调个性解放，我们鼓励有自己的思想。
　　曾经，我们也走过了怀疑一切的那几年。
　　最终，我们还是保留的心里的纯净简单。
　　所以，面对今天的花花世界，我们也是坦然。

终于又可以休息周末了！（本来是可以休息的，不过胖子莅临广州，需要接待，我要兼职三陪这个前途广大的职位！）

 

最近很是充实的浏览的其他人的空间，得出的结果就是，MSN的空间不属于中国人，受众太少了！！

 

我的东西不是写在QQ空间，就是百度空间，反正是没有在MSN空间写作的。一是有些东西不能给熟人看（所以放在大家都不知道的地方），二是有些东西是专门给熟人看的（就是QQ空间了，本人不会对自己发表的言论负责地）！

 

最近经常讨论的就是生存压力的问题了。为了让自己好过，要给其他人施压......诶，人力资源啊！！拿什么来拯救你？？我的同事！！

 

还是不得不逼着自己看书学习了，真是烦啊！

算起来，自己好久没值班了。不过涅，没更新的时间更长！！

 

当然了，跟以往一样，能写的东西非常的多：29岁的宅男开始跟女孩子交往，家旁边乐购开业了，邱兰离职了，谭良好调过来做了我的上司，腐败次数一下子累计上升了好几个点，比股市强N倍！！

 

前两天，度过了咱来广州的四周年！

再过两天，就是到上班的四周年！

再再过两天，就是某人的诞辰！

目前，只是一门心思的想继续活着，什么也阻挡不了！！

神挡杀神，佛挡诛佛，天上地下，唯我独尊！（介于牛A与牛C之间的，其实是牛X！！当然了，这也提醒了我们最好别夹在傻A和傻C中间，比较傻X！！）

 

 

通过以上的内容你能看出什么呢？？一个普通东北男人在广州的傻X生活！！

 

谈不上过的开心或者不开心，看看你周围的那些人，谁没个自己的烦恼呢？

 

也就只有傻不拉叽的我，才会不在乎那些！！反正老子就这么干吧活着，爱咋咋地吧！

 

现在男人找个女朋友其实不是很难，难在找老婆，挺TM不爽的！（我们虽然吃过饭了，可惜没一起喝过酒；还没经历唱歌的阶段呢，直接就开始拉手了，五指相扣的那种！然后我继续纯洁！！）

 

乐购是哪个国家的就不说了，新开业，可里面的东西竟然是预备过保质期的商品，怪不得打折那么狠呢？TM不爽！！（忘记说了，我买的是白酒！！）

 

小邱同学在一咬牙一跺脚后，下定了愚公移山的决心，结果发现山没了，自己下岗了。出去玩也没玩的尽兴，也TMD不爽！（那啤酒剩地，全被我拿家去了，到现在也没喝了，搁那块可闹心了！）

 

最不爽的在于我还在这里熬浆糊，想熬成阿香婆还需时日，手艺活啊！！赶紧找自己毛病开展自我批评吧！（其实已经挑出来好多了，像心脏病啊，肺病啊，胃病啊，肝病啊，肾病啊，关节病啊什么的！可惜毛都冇！！）

 

所以说，爽和不爽肯定是相依相伴的，凑活过吧！

一天魔王抓走公主,公主一直叫.
魔王 ：「你尽管叫破喉咙吧...没有人会来救你的....」
公主 ：「破喉咙..破喉咙..」
没有人：「公主..我来救你了...」
魔王 ：「说曹操曹操就到...」
曹操 ：「魔王..你叫我干嘛..」
魔王 ：「哇勒..看到鬼」
鬼 ：「靠!被发现了..」
靠 ：「阿鬼,你看的到我喔...」
魔王 ：「Oh,My God!」
上帝 ：「谁叫我?」
谁 ：「没有人叫你阿...」
没有人：「我哪有？装蒜啊！」
蒜 ：「谁在装我？」
谁 ：「又说我？你们找麻烦啊？」
麻烦 ：「哪一个找我？」
哪一个：「找你？我才没有...咦，这儿有好多人。」
好多人：「我才刚到耶……你是谁？」
哪一个：「我才不是谁。」
谁 ：「他才不是我。」
公主 ：「大家都是来救我的吗？」
大家都：「我不是来救你的，是来看热闹的。」
热闹 ：「我有什麽好看的？」
上帝 ：「不关我的事，先走了。」
魔王 ：「你回答一个问题再走，为什麽这麽多人救公主？我这个魔王怎麽演下去？」
下去 ：「你好好的魔王不干，演我做什麽？」
公主 ：「魔王若是没有人演，我就可以走了。」
没有人：「若是我演魔王，怎麽会让你走...」
怎麽会：「我才不让公主走，我要看热闹。」
热闹 ：「看我干什麽？」
什麽 ：「你居然要『干』我？流氓！」
你居然：「我哪有？」
我：「关我什麽事ㄚ?」
魔王：「靠!我要疯了......。」
靠：「喊我干什么!...」
疯了：「你要我干啥？」
你要我：「我什麽都不知道ㄚ!」
我什麽都不：「我哪知啊!」
我哪知：「我在这里ㄚ!有人在叫我吗?」
有人：「我没有叫你啊!」
我没有：「谁叫他了啊?」
谁：「冤枉啊...我没有...」
我没有：「我可没冤枉你啊...」
你：「谅你也不敢。」
谅你：「谁说我不敢!?」
谁：「拜托啊...我什麽都没说啦」
我什麽都没：「你要我说什麽?」
我什麽都不：「...你...你不就是我那失散多年的兄弟吗?」
我那失散多年的兄弟：「拷...我名字取这麽长...也会被叫到啊...」
谁：「...我要赶快离开这个是非之地」
是非：「原来这里是我的地盘啊...」
我什麽都不&我什麽都没：「你们别吵我们在讲话啦...」
你们别吵我们：「我没有在讲话啊...」
我没有：「我才没有讲话咧!...」
我什麽都不：「-_-&#92;"...走...我们到外面去聊...」
走：「人家不好意思啦...(扭捏)」
我什麽都没：「关你屁事啊...闪啦...」(两兄弟生气的走出去)
关你屁事：「呜...为什麽赶我走...」
为什麽：「我没有要赶你走啦...乖...不要哭」
我没有：「喔...又关我啥事了」
关我啥事：「啥?有人叫我吗?」
有人：「谁要叫你啊...」
谁：「我真的要走了...T.T」
走：「人家真的不好意思啦...*V.V*」(&#92;"谁&#92;"不支倒地)
关你屁事：「...你不是我表妹吗?」
关我啥事：「...表哥...好久不见啦...」
好久：「我不是在这里嘛...」
魔王：「你们有完没完？」
完没完：「他才没有我」
你们：「我才没有他」
我才：「谁说的？」
谁：「叫我干吗？」
吗：「你居然要干我？」
你：「我才不会干他」
我才：「谁说我不会？」
谁：「冤枉！我没说……」
说：「叫我干吗？」
吗：「你们俩真不要脸！」
你们俩：「我要！我要！」
脸：「谁要我？」
谁：「我不要啊」
魔王：「快一点，再说我可要撵人啦」
人啦：「赶撵我？找K」
K：「谁找我？」
谁：「aaaaaaa！别提我的名字，再提我也K他！」
他：「别K我」
我：「谁要K我？」
谁：「终于让我逮找一个啦，杀呀…………」
一个啦：「别逮我」
我：「我也受够啦，谁再提我的名字，我决不放过你！」
谁：「看我的降龙十八掌！」
我：「看我的九阴白骨爪！」
降龙十八掌：「我有什么好看的？」
九阴白骨爪：「我有啥好看的？」
什么好看的：「兄弟，我终于找着你啦！」
啥好看的：「哥，咱出去聊。」
魔王：「妈的...这是认亲大会啊...」

从此以后，魔王真的得了精神分裂症……

据说，有些人看完了会跟魔王一样精神分裂！！

話說魔王的精神分裂好了以後，又再次抓住公主。
這一次魔王為了避免閒雜人等又跑出來攪局，決定單刀直入，長話短說，直接切入正題.....
魔王：「別掙扎了！聽我的話，嫁給我吧！」
公主：「好吧！」
於是我高高興興牽著公主的手走入結婚禮堂，接受大家的祝福， 只剩下嘴張得像河馬、身體呆若木雞的魔王還留在原地發楞......

我的故事讲完了！（完了：谁的故事说我？谁：我的故事没完！我：×※……％￥＃◎........）

老美的东西不行啊！动不动就有毛病！！登录不了！整个破空间，捣扯到现在才可以加点内容，我TM容易么我？？

 

最近是疯狂的招聘，以及疯狂的加班！

 

说实话，在这个位置上会很容易让人疲倦，真的不适合女孩子来做，老的太快了！我这小老爷们儿现在都处在边缘了，再这么下去10天，保证挂！！

 

掰脚趾头数数，一晃就三年半过去了，时间过的真TMD快啊！从去年11月开始搞人事，到现在竟然过了一年，真是不可思议！！

 

于是乎，冒出个想法来，咱准备回想一下小前儿的事儿，把它写出来！给自己曝曝光，埋汰埋汰，炒作一番！你想知道咱咋长这么大的么？看到前面那个坑没？往里跳就知道了！！

 

PS：那啥！有写没写的，今天就这么多了，熬不住了！回家吃饭睡觉！对了，我添加了2个新的blog链接，想看美女的宅男腐女可以去浏览！

 

OTOH：再添加个链接：网络红人涂老鸦的成人漫画，给你家小孩做早期教育，看这个挺好地，男女老少皆宜！！

　　这几个月腐败了10余次，挺开心的，可是某些变量的产生带来了不可预知的后果！欢乐与痛苦突然一下持平了。体会到生活的甜蜜与苦涩，很大的收获啊！ 
  
　　当一个人习惯了把握所有细节之后，就会很不习惯这种无法顺从自己安排的感觉！

　　说实话，当无奈成为生活全部的时候，让人很不开心，让人很沮丧，但自己一定要去面对，虽然寻求帮助是正常行为，但自己的努力才更重要。

　　好像已经陷进去无法自拔了，顺其自然吧！

　　那就这样吧！

　　PS：看不懂没关系，这篇文章本来不应该出现在任何地方，不过还是写了出来，算是一种发泄吧！上帝欲使人灭亡，必先使其疯狂，俺应该不会疯狂吧？谁知道呢？反正有些事，天知，地知，你知，我不知！什么水到渠成，什么弄巧成拙，来就是了！

　　BTW：从新开始看美国偶像科幻剧集《roswell》（如果你去看韩国最新的大片《D－War》，那个主角奏四MAX的扮演者），这个是我接触美剧的开始啊！土豆真好！！（还看了几集《大剑》、《结界师》，现在对动画好像没以前感兴趣了！）“巴适成都味儿”那是相当地道的川菜了，辣到我无法自拔，再艰苦也要吃，推荐大家都去吃，带上我就更好了！！其实天河城TopKTV就位置好，内部装修好，服务人员态度好，其他的也就跟堂会差不多！广州还有钱柜、加州红等等地方需要发掘啊！！  

 

　　OTOH：这么大人了为什么会写出如此幼稚的语言来，我也不明了！就当上帝让我又抽风了一次！！！

从周日的时候就被人整的抓心挠肺，周一草草的总结了上周的腐败，就开始了新的准备，不知道具体实施时间，可是，真的可以继续败啊！ 

　　不可否认，自己是个很无聊的人！所以会有腐败活动的产生！而且是经常性的！然后就为我们的组织起草了这个古怪的名字——败月叫！

 

　　7月腐败了4次！2次啤酒节，2次唱K！理由？腐败需要理由乜？需要么？不需要么？好吧，随便写一个了，因为我想腐败了。前几个月腐败次数太少，刚好补回来！同去的基本就是公司那几个败友，现在发展下线越来越难了，一个个的都有家了，不好出来！

 

　　不过经过几次腐败，隐藏人物也被揪出来了！厄......其实一点都不隐藏，也就是小板栗和嘟嘟的老婆了！见过好几次了（用手指头可以数的过来的）！不过我一向都不在乎这些的，我只在乎有没有的败，有多少人败，能败多少！

 

　　哦！现在郑重宣布败月叫的名词解释归本人所有！其他的一律算盗版！（网络搜索结果败月叫竟然是仙剑组织，我倒！）

铅笔即将被装箱运走，制造者很不放心，，把它带到一旁跟它说：“在进入这个世界之前，我有五句话要告诉你，如果你能记住这些话，就会成为最好的铅笔。”

1、你将来能做很多大事，但是有一个前提，就是你不能盲目自由，你要允许自己被一只手握住；

2、你可能经常会感受到刀削般的疼痛，但是这些痛苦都是必须的，它会使你成为一支更好的铅笔；

3、不要过于固执，要承认你所犯的任何错误，并且勇于改正它；

4、不管穿上什么样的外衣，你都要清楚一点儿，你最重要的部分总是在里面；

5、在你走过的任何地方，都必须留正不可磨灭的痕迹，不管是什么状态，你必须写下去。要记住，生活永远不会毫无意义。 

今天突然了解到一个大学同学永远的离开了！

 

虽然只持续了很短的时间，可一下子被负面的情绪所填充的滋味真的很难受！

 

自己是个无比铁石心肠的人，对很多很多都无动于衷的！为什么会有这样的感受呢？可能是体会到了人生的短暂吧！

 

只有发生了，才会了解！

 

这人生真的是无比残酷啊！是不是离开也是一种解脱呢？！

 

唉！

     姜枫今天SB了，竟然去跟一个小女孩生气！不该啊，要好好自省一下！

 

     同时也悲哀现在的大学生，咋能是这样素质咧？？

 

     惹我生气的是一个国家重点高校的应届毕业生，在我面试过的这么多人里面，只能算是一般水准，挑进来也只能是俺当时犯的错了。

 

     不过她也应该是我所共事过的人里面，我佩服的一个了！谁体验过？一个人不会做事，不是虚心请教你，象是命令你一样，你应该怎么怎么样告诉明白我什么什么东西怎么怎么做，而不是我不懂，我一点一点的问，我一点一点的学！不管她对我的态度如何，我体谅了她！大学生嘛！当团支书的！也是当官的，支使人惯了，在工作中慢慢磨练就好了！可她竟然去挑战我底线——尊严！我是你领导啊，不是你佣人！你对别人态度咋就那么好咧？一天两天也就算了呗！你死不悔改的这种态度对我，你属驴的啊！公司企业文化是“尊重与赢得尊重”，你挑人对待，我欠你的啊？不知所谓！

 

     今天找她谈话，竟然还跟我耍性子耍了一天！终于下午离职前谈话跟我道歉了，拜托，给点敬业精神好不！演的不累么？好，跟她说公司不要她了，开始想给自己找面子了。给你脸，不要脸，你的面子在我这里早就不存在了。

 

     我TMD的一琢磨，发现是自己犯贱。早就该放弃她，干吗给她机会，让她回来？以后发现这样的，早早就滚蛋，省着让别人也生气！

 

     行了，姜枫生完气了！

 

     有谁愿意给我挑刺的，绝对不要照顾我面子，往死里挑，我虚心接受，死不悔改，改了再犯，犯了再改，千锤百炼，永垂不朽！

 

     P.S.：衷心对惹我生气的女孩说一句：我佩服你，竟然能让我姜枫为一个小女孩生一天气，你真牛X，让我长进了！谢谢！！希望你在今后工作中长进点，现在社会不缺大学生！！

 

     BTW：以上全是老疯子气疯了的疯话，谁要是当真了。。。。。。。。你那么较真干吗？不累的慌？大家没事不要生气，气大伤身，苦恼的还是自己！所以有气要撒，不要对着朋友和亲属撒，伤感情，象我这样疯一下，还能填充一下空间，又能自省自己，挺好！

 

    写句隐藏的，大家不找看不见的，男淫女淫都挺好！

 

好吧，咱们直入主题！

 

1、己所不欲，勿施于人！

    我努力的去做了！

 

2、你所怨言的，只能代表你缺少什么，不能证明你拥有什么！

    没错！需要反思啊！

 

3、成功的人不论在哪里都会很注意自己的形象。它不仅仅是个面子问题，也是能力问题！

    自己领悟吧！去看《你的形象价值百万》！

 

4、做了，不一定会成功；不做，就一定不会成功！

    1001次求婚到底是个啥概念啊？恐怖！

 

没啥其他的了，自勉吧！

PS：附：《编辑部的故事》葛优&张国立经典对白
    葛优：“你说咱长这么大容易吗。”
    张国立：“说别人我不敢说，反正我是真不容易。”
    葛优：“可不是。打在胎里，就随时有可能流产，当妈的一口烟就可能畸形。长慢了心脏缺损，长快了就六指儿。好容易扛过十个月生出来了，一不留神，还得让产钳把脑子压扁。都躲过去了，小儿麻痹、百日咳、猩红热、大脑炎还在前面等着。哭起来呛奶，走起来摔跤；摸水水烫，碰火火燎；是个东西撞上，咱就是个半死。钙多了不长个，钙少了罗圈腿。总算换到会吃饭能出门了，天上下雹子，地下跑汽车；大街小巷是个暗处就躲着个坏人。你说赶谁都是个九死一生。”
    张国立：“这都是明枪，还有暗箭呢。势利眼、冷脸子、闲言碎语、指桑骂槐；好了遭人嫉妒，差了让人瞧不起；忠厚的人家说你傻，精明的人家说你奸；冷淡了大伙儿说你傲，热情了群众说你浪；走在前头挨闷棍，走在后头全没份；这也叫活着，纯粹是练他妈一辈子轻功。”